Who's chasing who?

Everywhere I look, there's this one and that one. Reservations for two...the couples that go everywhere together...the ones who have been dating forever, so they might as well be official already...the dramatic couple who fight over every little thing, and bring the whole world into the situation; even though they're gonna make up sooner or soon, later...that cute boyfriend and girlfriend relationship who just look good together; the ones that seem so ideal that you wish you had the same bond with another too...the inevitable couple, that everyone predicted were gonna end up talking; eventually...there's that scandalous couple that should not at all be together because it goes against every unwritten friendship rule...or even that unexpected relationship that popped out of thin air...

The way I see it, there are two people in a relationship. Regardless of who they are; what they're labeled as; or what they've been through...the question is...How did they become so intertwined and involved with each other's lives? Hmm? Did he go after her? Or did she go after him? Who made the initial, "move" and who made the actual "move"? But...once again...this isn't my point of this blog. The person chasing and the person being chased. I see all these different relationship situations surrounding my life and the lives of others, and it's soooo easy for me to spot the chasers, and the ones being chased. It's unfortunate, that this is the way that couples deal with each other, but it's true. Here, pick a couple that you know about, in your own head...go ahead...it can be your own relationship status, or of someone else's that you know of...alright, now that you have that ideal couple in your state of mind...think about it. Who's chasing who? There's always that one who feels like the other one's too good for them, or that they'll never be able to tame the other one. Yeah, it takes two to tango, but how can it work, when one of the two just doesn't care...leaving the other person challenged to constantly keep the other person's interest, high. One of you may be oblivious to these circumstances, which surely means, that the other one's the one being chased.

All I'm saying is, the dog can only chase after the cat so long; and eventually, the cat's gonna chase after the mouse. So who's chasing who, now? I've seen relationships that have lasted years and are still going on; but no matter how long two people have been dating, I can still see those individuals being chased; and those chasers in denial, clinging to the best thing they've had in their life. I know you, you know, who you are; The chaser, or the one who's always being chased. Don't get stuck being in denial. Don't be a fool.

Careful. Who are you chasing after?

And... Who are you being chased by?